How to explain vaginal atrophy to your partner?
Explain to your partner that vaginal atrophy is a common medical condition caused by low oestrogen, leading to dryness and discomfort—not a lack of desire. Openness, education, and joint problem-solving can strengthen your relationship and intimacy.
Detailed Medical Explanation
Try saying: “Vaginal atrophy happens when hormone levels drop, especially after menopause or some treatments. It can make sex uncomfortable, but it’s not about attraction or love. With the right care—moisturisers, lubricants, or treatment—it can improve. I want us to work through this together and keep our intimacy strong.” NHS and RCOG provide further patient-friendly resources for couples. NHS: Explaining Vaginal Atrophy.
Clinical Context
Partners often feel relieved to understand the cause. Inviting your partner to appointments or sharing leaflets helps foster empathy and support.
Evidence-Based Approaches
Guidelines recommend involving partners in discussions to improve outcomes and relationship satisfaction. RCOG: Intimacy & GSM.